While the "Third Sex" has played an important role in entertainment throughout history, in North America it was uncommon until fairly recently. Until the Fifties, there really weren’t too many people who even identified themselves as transgendered in any way. There have been crossdressers since the beginning but that isn’t what I am referring to. Transgender refers to self-identification with any point on the gender continuum except the male or female poles.
Advancements in Psychology, Psychiatry, and Surgery as well as a more liberal attitude have made it possible for people to identify themselves on the continuum of
gender. Perhaps that needs clarification. The dictionary defines two genders, male and female. But is that the way it really is? Or is it possible to define gender as a continuum between these two points of male and female? Let me ask you a question. Have you ever seen a feminine man or a masculine woman? Could it be that there
is a range of possibilities afforded by nature rather than two immutable points? Gender is a function of the psyche as much as it is of physical characteristics. We are, each or us, unique. Is it so difficult to accept that we are expressions of different points on the continuum of gender? It is so much simpler to say man or woman. But that laziness is not rewarded with an accurate representation of life. It is more precise to say that we are, each of us, unique. We can conceive of ourselves as somewhere on the continuum between what is known as a man and a woman. Other people will conceive of us as they will. Some will see us as either male or female – black and white, no questions. More open minded people will see us as individual and unique. I like those people!
It has been possible for many years to use cosmetic surgery to alter our features to be
more aligned with our conception of who we are. And so it followed that people who identified themselves more as the opposite gender chose to undergo such procedures. Some saw themselves as born in a body of the wrong gender while others saw themselves at some mid point on the continuum, somewhere between male and female.
Cosmetic procedures are very expensive. In order to find the means to pay for treatments, some transgendered people have considered escorting as a means to effect their transformation. For many, this transformation is so important that it takes precedence over anything else in their lives. When you encounter a TS escort, it is likely that, in some way, this played a role in the decision to become an escort.
At first, those who underwent procedures were at the brave vanguard of what was
possible. But soon enough, others followed by example. Now there are people who espouse every possible nuance of gender. It is now possible to be outwardly
transformed from a man into a woman or vice versa and it is becoming more
common as time goes on. Trust me – there are lots of transsexuals out there.
You’ve probably met a few and didn’t even know.
There is also the mythical Androgyne. In this last regard, some people are gifted with a natural neutrality of gender, endowed with an equal measure of male and female characteristics. Some believe that these individuals are examples of perfection through balance, being neither too male nor too female. While the reality may not exactly reflect the myth, there are individuals who are very androgynous. Whether that makes them perfect is a matter of opinion and, I suppose, this is a little beyond the goals of this article.
Most TS escorts are male-to-female at some stage of transformation. Some intend to complete Sex Reassignment Surgery while others are intent on stopping short of that. There are TS escorts who have decided to identify themselves as female without having changed much save their clothing. Some have just begun to take female hormones but have not had any sort of cosmetic procedures. Some “Tgirls” have restructured their facial features to some degree and have had breasts implants done. There are even procedures for changing the shape of the skull or removing ribs to achieve a more feminine appearance. There is a procedure for changing the timbre of your voice. The list goes on. It is not unheard of for someone to spend $150,000 or more on procedures. To sum up, there is a whole range of Tgirls out there.
Sometimes the obvious isn’t obvious at all. Why would a man enjoy being with a Tgirl?
Experiences vary of course, and I have my own opinions about it. I think Tgirls understand how to please a man because they have the same erogenous responses themselves. After all, the basic equipment she was born with is the same that the man is sporting now. It stands to reason that, if it feels good for her, it will feel good
for him. In terms of her appearance, a Tgirl has to work at it to be a woman.
For many Tgirls, this involves a significant and conscious effort to be feminine in appearance and mannerism. Maybe her man will appreciate all that hard work. After all, she is preparing herself for him –
that’s a compliment in my book – what about yours?
Gay or Not
A question that comes up often is: Does it make me Gay if I am attracted to a Tgirl? The answer is no for two important reasons.
- Gay men are attracted to other men. A Tgirl is not a man in the sense that, at
the very least, she projects the image of being a woman. You may be attracted to a woman with a penis
but that is not the same as being attracted to a man.
- The words Gay and Straight imply that
a person can only be attracted to men or women.
They do not admit the possibility of being attracted to someone at mid
point on the continuum between male and female.
In fact, you are attracted to what attracts you and you will be hard
pressed to change that to any degree.
Give yourself the license to be attracted to what attracts you. Do not put yourself in a box by using words
to label yourself – just be yourself, just as you are. Let others try to label you if they want to
but don’t worry yourself too much about it – that’s their problem.
I’d like to sum up by saying that, if you are aroused by the idea of being with a Tgirl,
you ought to try it and see. Maybe you won’t like it but at least you’ll know. Maybe you’ll realize that widening your horizons opens you up to realizing that it’s OK to like what you like. Maybe that freedom of outlook will spread to other areas of your life. You shouldn’t be afraid to call up a Tgirl who strikes your fancy and setting up a meeting.
About me
As a licensed escort, I am not permitted to be graphic in my descriptions of what we
might do together. But I’d like to say that my first priority is your comfort and satisfaction. Some of my clients have been with Tgirls before and have already discovered what they like and dislike. For others, I am their first experience with
a Tgirl. I consider it a privilege to meet people such as this. I always take great care to remain aware of what pleases and what doesn’t. I am very open and easy to talk to – I will get to the core of what you desire. I never force anyone to do anything they don’t like.
If you decide that you’d like to meet me, please feel free to give me a call and I will be very happy to discuss it with you. I promise that you’ll enjoy yourself with me. I enjoy chatting and I am not a clock-watcher. I hope the experience will broaden your horizons and that it leads you in the direction of self-discovery.
Sunshine
